Articles: 28
02 Jul 2025, 05:31
Fashion
Personal style isn't dead, and social media didn't kill it: most people never really had it in the first place.
17 Jun 2025, 02:02
Earlier this year, I found out that a former partner passed away…followed only a couple weeks later by the loss of a close friend.
28 May 2025, 03:14
Sexiness has always been something that I felt eluded me.
19 May 2025, 20:34
I've recently made the effort to introduce more rituals into my life.
10 May 2025, 22:42
AKA Lakyn's Obligatory Met Gala-Related Post 2025
20 Apr 2025, 20:42
Should you be keeping an outfit journal?
08 Apr 2025, 04:00
Inspiration is always in the last place you'd look.
23 Mar 2025, 17:15
How do you determine the "value" of something?
11 Mar 2025, 23:45
You wanna know a secret?
01 Mar 2025, 01:23
Coolness—the art of being cool—is a distinctly and historically American concept.
28 Jan 2025, 02:07
A Note From Lakyn: When I started writing this post in December, I didn't intend for it to end up being quite so topical.
25 Dec 2024, 16:52
I've never really been into letting others tell me how to dress, whether it be through dress codes, expectations based on societal standards, or the (not-so-quiet) judgement of others.
05 Dec 2024, 02:21
53%. If you've been paying any sort of attention to U.S.
05 Nov 2024, 04:02
For better or for worse, a good deal of my internet presence was shaped by Tumblr.
17 Oct 2024, 19:26
Every few months on Twitter, there seems to be a new viral post about some girl who got kicked out of her friend's birthday party or other self-centered (neutral) event because she dared to "outdress" the host.
03 Oct 2024, 18:57
How to Sell (And Shop For) Pre-Loved Clothing
11 Sep 2024, 02:22
17 years ago, when I was 14, I had an open wound on my leg that would not heal, that hurt so bad that I struggled to walk, and that ultimately lead to me being hospitalized with an infection that we were lucky hadn't turned septic.
30 Aug 2024, 17:55
Two styles diverge in a yellow wood...
12 Aug 2024, 15:36
How To Look At Your Clothes Differently
30 Jul 2024, 23:48
I was on Threads—which I've since deleted—the other day, browsing my "For You" tab like I do entirely too much when I'm feeling both under- and over-stimulated, and I stumbled upon this post (OP's identity is redacted for a reason, there's no need to go searching for them):
16 Jul 2024, 01:55
Does it even matter?
03 Jul 2024, 04:40
AKA How to Look Hot When It's Too Hot
14 Jun 2024, 19:50
Is it all a capitalist ploy to get you to spend more money?
05 Jun 2024, 16:35
Did you know it only takes 7 seconds to make a first impression?
16 May 2024, 19:39
This post is part of an as-of-today unfinished longform essay about the way sex workers influence fashion, something I—a former sex worker, myself—have talked about previously to 1Granary. This is a more evolved version of the thoughts in that piece.
29 Apr 2024, 22:48
Can I rant a little bit?
21 Apr 2024, 19:00
Today, April 21st, is my birthday!
16 Apr 2024, 02:01
Do NOT drink everytime I say "edgy."
